When It Is Not Love!
Lol I typed and hit the send key. Bayo always brought smiles to my face. Infact almost all his toasting actions always made me laugh. Bayo had been actively asking me out for the past 4 months....
View ArticleI Do Not Think I Can Get Over His PAST!
Dear MFA, I am a 38-year-old lady who just got married 2 months ago. My delay in getting married partially stemmed from my desire to get the best husband as I believe marriage is for better or for...
View ArticleLove In All Its Forms.
Love comes in different forms Sometimes it’s sharing with each other, Sometimes it’s caring about each other, Sometimes it lending a listening ear, Sometimes it’s sharing your thoughts. Other times its...
View ArticleThe Spirit Of Happy
Happy new year my dearest people, Its been a wonderful time of celebration and festivities these past 2 weeks and as usual, i found myself caught up in the build up and anticipation of the Christmas...
View ArticleWhen She No Longer Drinks.
I was a youth corper serving in Benue State and unlike other corpers i was happy to be away from home. I loved the independence and freedom that youth service offered and i was ready to ride that horse...
View ArticleThe Importance Of Being Yourself.
Looking back at my past, there are many things I wish I could have rewritten or done better. But the one thing I always regretting not doing, was simply being who I truly am. Being in middle school and...
View ArticleMy Husband Married His Mother!
Dear Mfa, I need advice from your blog. I got married to my husband about a year ago and right off the bat I knew we couldn’t make it. I knew because his mother moved into our home the 2nd week we...
View ArticleRoses Without The Red
It is not that I cannot live without your kind words, it is that I need them to flourish It is not that I cannot say them to myself, it is that they would have no meaning if they were not uttered by...
View ArticleDating For The Church!
Sis, I can’t break up with him o, my Pastor would kill me. I don’t understand Sunbo. You say you no longer love him or even want to be with him, yet you cannot leave him? Kilode? Dem tie una together...
View ArticleDo Mondays Matter To You Yet?
“Honestly, I never really understood the glorification of Fridays & weekends. I don’t want to build a life and career, where I spend five days a week waiting for the weekend. No! I want to enjoy...
View ArticleLetter To God From A Disgruntled Soul!
Lord, Lord, Lord Where at thou? Where at thou in my forest? For this life I live, is surely a forest filled with dangers both hidden and revealed. All around me I can feel the darkness of problematic...
View ArticleWhat Has Cooking Got To Do With Marriage?
Although I was born in Lagos, I was blessed to have an aunt who took me to the United States when she was relocating there with her family. I was 9 when we relocated and although she did try to get me...
View ArticleWhen I Discovered He Was Just A Mortal!
And when it became obvious to her that he was just as mortal as any other man she took him off the pedestal she had placed him on – L.F The sentence above tells my story in totality. It speaks of my...
View ArticleFor The Love Of A Table And A Chair!
For weeks now I have been disgruntled and slightly rudderless. I have found myself lost in thought severally and generally unhappy during working hours for reason unknown to me. You see, a while ago I...
View ArticleFaithing Or Deceit?
Over the weekend a friend regaled me of a matter that left me a bit confused. Some parts of the story seemed deceitful while some seemed like extreme faithing. I will leave you guys to decide what you...
View ArticleFoolishness Or Mild Wisdom?
This is a story of Bolanle the wise. Bolanle has always been a sharp girl, so sharp that at times she cuts herself .. If you get what I mean. Bolanle believed that every problem had a quick solution....
View ArticleSocial Media Drama Artists
Going through different social media posts, I am baffled at the amount of disrespectful and down right insulting words that people type and post online. I find it ridiculous when I see people who have...
View ArticleWould You Intervene?
What do friends do when they see you have lost your way? They slap you awake the best way they know how. The story (yes there’s always a story.. Lol) is told of a not so young man who fell in love with...
View ArticlePhone Memory Full, Deletion Required.
When I think of the goodness of Jesus and all He has done for me, my very soul shall shout hallelujah, praise God for saving me. I woke up to my android phone beeping this morning, I instinctively...
View ArticleLife Is Truly A Pot Of Beans.
Life truly is a pot of beans. I woke up this morning excited because it’s my first day of work! My very first Monday at my very first job!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But that excitement melts away as I make my way...
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